25 March 2010

I have less than 10 days working under this company and it is also time for me to summarize my 30 months tenure report card.. over the past 30 months, there are 2 persons that really touched my Architecture life... My boss and my supervisor... To be honest, I am glad that things have been put in this way and I trust that I have pick up a lot within this period of time and I have matured under this circumstance..

Things that I learnt

1. Be sincere to whoever approach me

2. Do not judge a person from where he came from

3. Appreciate others' effort

4. Be fair to each and everyone

5. Stand up + be responsible for my own mistake and share the glory with whoever fought the war with me

6. Be serious and careful in decision making

7. Do not flip-flop with my own decision

8. Sincere in passing my knowledge to my subordinate

9. Give my subordinate support and confidence in making a statement

10. Act as team when we are fronting out

11. Take blame as a team when we need to

12. Trust the person when an assignment entrusted to him

13. Share my opinion with an open heart

14. Accept criticism and think over the statements people pointed at me

15. Do not use excuses to cover mistakes

16. Do not be coward when the situation need my stand

17. Accept my incapability and improve from where I fall

18. Do not accept blindly, think, check and justify what were given to me

19. Do not create unnecessary small circle

20. Do not criticize my boss in front of my colleague

Throughout the tenure, things happened and sticks flew. I failed and I fell but I trust that, I have stood up and I would leave with my chin up. Though my effort may not be seen but I know I am a better person. 1st world country or 3rd world country doesn't make a person different... It is the attitude.. :)

1.3.2010

This is another post without images... :)

I would like to record down this very day as it marks another turning point in my life. I have spoken to boss and officially I am serving my 1 month notice. It has been near 30 months in Singapore and I wonder should I call me a wonderful journey or perhaps, this could be one of the journey really grew me up a lot x 10000.

Receive some sticks over my resignation and some of the words are harsh.. be it out of his intention or not... that has put my mood down for a while. Great to have friends around and she reminds me of this...

"What doesn't kill you make you stronger.." yes indeed...

1. I have no chance in any possible success in Sg.

2. I am just a 3rd world countryman.

3. No matter how far I venture into the world, I still can't beat them - a Singaporean

4. He doesn't need any replacement over my resignation as in fact my timing is just right for him.

Lots more... but these few sentences have enough power to shake my world. All the way back from office, I was thinking over my performance over the 30 months with him. Questions after questions popping out asking myself what have I gain from these period of time...

To conclude my doubts and queries... I guess... nothing better than this...

"I am a now a better and stronger person... at least I beat him in my tolerance toward a coward and my courage to admit my own mistake..."

move on oscar... life is not about him only... no point letting a person's words drawn my bright future.......